Where is Morality and Integrity?

Namaste 
It's amazing how immorality and integrity are so easily 
exchanged for that quick feel good moment. What 
has happened to humanity ? People not only do not 
value others but they also do not value themselves in 
the least. 
Have been asked about polyunions lately and don't 
people have enough problems on their plate just 
managing one relationship at a time ? Even if these 
are minus the sexual aspect, which in most cases is fully 
in play; there still remains all the jealousy and other 
emotional drama traumas of mental loops and hoops 
to be waded through. 
There could be so much turmoil avoided if just this simple 
pointing were put into effect and that is to keep sex on the 
back burner and find out what values - direction - and life 
partner reality this possible union may have. Sex comes and 
it goes and when one is being driven by the gonads of 
WOW am i ever turned on so this MUST be Love, it is going 
to do little more than keep the head spinning and the 
mind going and the body revved up until the newness 
wears off and that veneer of excitement is replaced 
with where did this godzilla come from ? 
OK you say but i am not looking for a life partner just a 
little fun. What is fun in the emotional turmoil that results 
when one discovers a pregnancy OR that they have received 
or given some communicable disease ? Or that one person 
is looking for a relationship ? There are so many dramas 
that arise from this besides once again being driven into 
justifications and seeking that feel good moment which is 
limited at best. When this driving force is taken off the 
table one seeks the higher things that can actually bring 
a steadiness and balance within. When staying body 
focused and seeking the external limited momentary 
pleasures which are so fleeting in nature you 
are doing little more than buying a ticket for a roller 
coaster ride that goes nowhere but in circles. If 
you go in circles long enough you wind up simply 
dizzy and without balance. 
In order to keep some balance in ones life - there has to 
come a time of integrity rather than the rationalization 
and justification of running after the momentary ME 
gratifications which can have so many unforeseen 
complications and devastating consequences in tow. 
People say that they are seeking a way to be more 
in control of their lives - and the FIRST step to gaining 
more balance is to start to step into integrity without 
justifying these activities which bring hidden baggage 
and chains of defeat and karmic consequences in their 
wake... 
Isn't it time to wake up ? Take the High Road, walk 
in Sacredness and Simplicity 
OM Shanti